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Residency

In order to file for divorce in Texas, either you or your spouse has to have been a legal resident of Texas for 6 months before filing. The spouse that is a legal resident also has to have been a resident of the County of filing for the past 3 months before filing. “Residency” is loosely defined in Texas. A voter registration or driver’s license can be used to satisfy the residency requirement. Your representations to the Court in a divorce or family law proceeding must be sworn to by you under a Solemn Oath to tell the Truth.

How fast can a divorce be done in Texas?

Texas has a mandatory 60 day waiting period. This waiting period begins on the day the “Petition for Divorce” is filed with the Court. Most people who hire The Childress Law Office want their divorce over fast, and it is best that the Petition filed with the Court have your original signature. This is the main reason we have adopted a policy that we let our clients file the Petition themselves - because most of our clients want to start the waiting period as soon as possible. We will inform you exactly where and how to file, and what the local filing fee is. The Court will waive filing fees upon the filing of a truthful Affidavit of Indigency, which The Childress Law Office will also assist with in appropriate cases. You should be on public assistance, disabled, bankrupt or supporting multiple dependents without help before requesting an Affidavit of Indigency.

The Childress Law Office makes every effort to have your divorce ready to be finalized on the 61st day after filing. This requires the cooperation of both parties.

We encourage reconciliation between spouses. In fact, the waiting period exists by law because the policy of the Texas legislature is to encourage reconciliation. Many couples file for divorce but reconcile.

The only way for a divorce to be finalized within 61 days of filing WITHOUT an agreement or cooperation from the non-filing spouse, is by a “Default Judgment”. See more about this below under “What is a Default Judgment?”

Name Change

The Texas Family Code specifies that either spouse CAN, as part of a divorce, get a name change to a “prior used name”. The Childress Law Office will obtain such a name change for you or your spouse, if desired, at no extra charge. But we must be advised of this request promptly. Note that the name change must be to a “prior used”, such as a maiden name. If you want a name change to a completely new name that you have never used before, Texas law requires a detailed, sworn and verified Petition be filed. This law is primarily intended for the benefit and protection of creditors.

What is a “Qualified Domestic Relations Order” ?

We refer to these by the acronym “QDROs”, pronounced “quadro” or plural “quadros”. If you believe or have heard that you may need a QDRO, you can thank the United States Congress for passing a law known as the Employees’ Retirement Income Security Act (“ERISA”). Congress enacted ERISA as a “tort reform” measure to protect retirement, pension and health-care plans from lawsuits. Sidney Childress has actually sued big corporations with this law, in federal court, for trying to cheat employees out of previously promised benefits.

The United States’ Supreme Court has called the scope of ERISA “deliberately expansive”. Basically, ERISA provides that no plan protected by it is bound to comply with any state court order. Divorces are granted in state court. Therefore, ERISA allows the Administrator of a retirement or pension plan to legally ignore your state-court award of community property. ERISA Plan Administrators will abide by the Divorce Decree and disburse a retirement or pension award directly to a former spouse only if a separate, special type of Order is entered: a QDRO.

Every Plan Administrator, again thanks to ERISA and the United States Congress, gets to dictate their own specifications for how the QDRO must be drafted. ERISA subjects Plan Administrators to criminal liability if they mis-handle an ERISA plan. So try to understand if they are sometimes nit-picky and difficult to work with.

For a QDRO, a process of drafting, review and pre-approval occurs between the divorce attorney and the Plan Administrator, before a final form of QDRO is agreed on and entered by the state divorce court. This can be an unpredictable, time-consuming process.

The Childress Law Office charges $500 for the entry of a QDRO. We recommend that, if possible, you look for ways to fairly divide your estate without a QDRO, such as giving one spouse more of another asset instead of part of an ERISA-protected plan. When The Childress Law Office is hired, our job is to help clients explore their options and make the best plans possible under the circumstances.

Marital Separation or Property Settlement Agreements. Can I get a “legal separation” in Texas ?

Yes. But understand that Texas Courts do not have any legal proceedings or process called “legal separation”.

In family cases, Texas Courts grant things called “Temporary Orders” upon request, for the protection of the parties and preservation of the marital estate, as needed or requested by the parties. Violation of the Court’s Temporary Order is a “contempt of court” and punishable by fine and imprisonment. A person found in contempt of court usually has to pay the attorney’s fees of the other side’s lawyer.

“Temporary Orders” are often necessary or un-avoidable. They mean the parties or lawyers have been unable to reach an agreement without court intervention. They also mean lawyers, litigation and court-hearings. This is very expensive. But many difficult situations arise in family cases that simply need the attention of the Court.

A “marital separation” or “property settlement agreement” is simply another form of private contract between 2 people. They are not necessary for a divorce but can be helpful in various circumstances. Some people attempt to avoid Temporary Orders by negotiating favorable separation agreements. This can be effort well spent.

“Marital separation” and/or distinct “Property Settlement Agreements” are simply other ways to try to avoid contested Court proceedings. These type agreements include “pre-nuptial agreements” and “post-nuptial agreements”.

The Texas Constitution specifically authorizes agreements between spouses for the separation or “partition” of property. Texas Courts will enforce these agreements if they are properly drafted, and as long as they are not unconscionable or made under any type of duress, coercion or undue influence.

Texas Courts also recognize that “….. a parent’s interest in his child is of constitutional dimension.” In the Interest of T.J.S., 71 S.W.3d 452 at 461 (Tex.App. - Waco 2002). Within parameters set by the Family Code, Texas Courts will allow almost all agreements regarding children that serve the children’s best interests.

What is the most important part of the Standard Possession Order?

Texas’s Standard Possession Order is promulgated at Chapter 153 of the Texas Family Code. It is appropriate for most uncontested or agreed cases regarding children where one parent pays child support to the other. The standard possession order is time tested and has been found to best promote the public policy of Texas, also set forth at Chapter 153 of the Texas Family Code: “The public policy of this State is to - 1) assure that children will have frequent and continuing contact with parents who have shown the ability to act in the best inertest of the child; 2) provide for a safe, stable and non-violent environment for the child; and 3) encourage parents to share in the rights and duties of raising their child after the parents have separated …..”

Standard possession orders in Texas have gotten extremely detailed, including provisions for holiday exchanges, designated summer vacations, long-distance travel, exchange of passports, international travel, etc. The Childress Law Office keeps fully abreast of the latest recommended language from the Texas State Bar’s Family Law Practice Manual, and uses the language best suited for the needs of each client.

The most important part of the Standard Possession Order is the part right at the very beginning which clearly indicates “Each parent may have possession of the child (or children) at all times mutually agreed to in advance.”

What is the purpose of the Texas Child Support Disbursement Unit?

The State of Texas has adopted a policy, also set forth by statute, that all child support is to be paid through a central state registry: the Texas Child Support Disbursement Unit, which keeps good records. If you are getting divorced with children, the Family Court Judge will expect to see provisions in your Divorce Decree regarding this. If these provisions are not in the Decree, the Judge will expect an explanation from you of how this is in the best interest of your children. There are important public policy reasons behind this, a discussion of which is beyond the scope of this website.

Tax Deductibility of Attorney’s Fees

The general rule is that attorney’s fees incurred in a family case are personal expenses and not tax deductible. There are a few exceptions.

When deductible, attorney’s fees are treated as “miscellaneous itemized deductions”. They are deductible only to the extent they exceed 2% of the taxpayer’s adjusted gross income. They cannot be taken into account in computing the alternate minimum tax. In order to take advantage of the 2% rule, all the fees must be paid within one tax year.

Attorney’s fees and other litigation costs are deductible to the extent they are incurred to produce or acquire taxable income.

Because spousal support is taxable income, the fees incurred in obtaining it, or in collecting delinquent spousal support, are deductible. An accountant’s fees may be tax deductible to the extent the accountant’s work involved determining the parties’ actual cash flow, so a Court could determine an amount of spousal support. Fees for other experts, like vocational counselors, may also be deductible to the extent they were used to obtain an order for spousal support.

Attorney’s fees incurred to obtain other taxable income, like an interest in a pension or retirement plan, royalties, residuals, and etc., may also be tax deductible. Fees incurred in establishing or defending title to property may be capitalized and added to the basis of property. Fees are also deductible to the extent they are paid for tax planning advice.

In the event the IRS disputes deductions of attorney’s fees or litigation expenses, the taxpayer will need an allocation letter from his or her attorney that expressly itemizes the deductible and non-deductible fees and expenses.

Other Tax and Estate Planning Issues Often Arise in Family Cases

The most common are answered this way: child-support is not taxable income to the “Obligee” (the person receiving it), and is not tax-deductible to the “Obligor” (the person paying it). Spousal support is the opposite. Spousal support is taxable income to the recipient. The person paying it can deduct.

At The Childress Law Office, we look for ways to benefit clients with tax and estate planning issues. For example, consider the differing tax consequences based on how the tax exemptions for the children are allocated.

Sometimes tax planning can be done by using the tax deductibility of attorney’s fees to allocate fees between spouses. If (by way of example only) Husband pays to Wife $25,000 as spousal support and Wife pays her attorney’s fees from this money, Wife may be able to deduct a significant portion of her fees and both parties benefit. Doing the property agreement this way gives the Husband incentive to pay Wife’s legal fees and expenses by making them tax deductible as spousal support. This is just one example and for purposes of illustration only.

Military Issues

In 1982, the United States Congress passed the “Uniform Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act”. This law authorized state divorce courts to treat military retired pay as community property.

In Texas, the general rule is that a portion of military retired pay will be awarded to the former spouse, as a percentage or fractional amount of the pay. The actual amount awarded to a former spouse is formulaic based on the length of the marriage and the amount of time the service-member was in the military during the marriage.
In a divorce involving military retired pay, Texas judges, especially in counties around military bases, are likely to question any property division that does not include an award of retired pay to a former spouse.

Are former spouses entitled to use the Commissary and BX? Yes. When the Former Spouses’ Law was initially passed, it specified that the former spouse must not be married and the marriage to the retiree must have lasted at least 20 years during the retiree’s active service.

What about medical care for former spouses? When the Former Spouses’ Law was initially passed, it specified that a former spouse who had not remarried and who was married for at least 20 years while the servicemember was on active duty, is eligible for permanent medical care at military facilities.

A current controversial issue about military retired pay is whether the portion that is denominated “disability” pay should be paid as part of the award to the former spouse.

Can I get my name off the mortgage if I give my spouse the house?

Your state divorce court cannot waive or stay your lawful debts. If you signed any type of promissory note or made any agreement for debt during your marriage, you can still be held legally liable for that debt even if the Divorce Decree specifies that your spouse is obligated for that debt. Your remedy for violation of your divorce agreement is against your ex-spouse.

If you are concerned about either you or your spouse having to file for bankruptcy in the future, you should consult with an attorney about ways to secure your divorce in a way that avoids such a situation.

For divorces where one spouse conveys the house to another, this office will provide the Deeds necessary to secure the agreement of the parties as well as possible. All such Deeds are in writing and based on the information provided by the parties. We recommend the Divorce Decree specify that the person getting the house has to refinance the mortgage within x number of months, based on the agreement of the parties, or be subject to a forced foreclosure sale.

The Childress Law Office is available for enforcement actions under the Texas Family Code, including collection of past due and owing spousal support or maintenance, retired pay, child support, and agreed-upon or court-ordered division of property.

Child Custody Modification

Texas courts allow children at the age of 12 to have substantial say in their preference of which parent to live with. The child does not get to make the decision entirely, but the child is allowed to have substantial say in his or her desires.

Another grounds for change of child custody is if the parent with the court-ordered right to establish the domicile of the child voluntarily relinquishes the primary care and possession of the child for 6 months.

Terms and conditions of conservatorship can also be modified if the modification is found to be in the best interest of the child and there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances.

The Childress Law Office is available to assist parents with the the proper drafting, filing and service of legal documents necessary to effectuate their agreed upon or uncontested child custody or conservatorship modifications.

Child Support Modification

Child support modification is available by filing a Motion with the Court that made the underlying child support order. It requires a showing of a material and substantial change in circumstances of a person affected by the order, such as a loss of employment or dramatic increase in earnings.

Texas Courts will also routinely review and adjust child support orders if: 1) it has been 3 years since entry of the order and 2) if the amount ordered differs by either 20% or $100 from the amount that would be awarded under Texas’ child support guidelines.

Texas Family Code Section 156.402 indicates the Court can modify child support if this is in the best interest of the child involved, and the court-ordered support is not in substantial compliance with Texas’s child support guidelines.

Another grounds for modification of child support is if the parent receiving the support voluntarily relinquishes the primary care and possession of the child for 6 months.

The Childress Law Office is available to assist parents with the the proper drafting, filing and service of legal documents necessary to effectuate their agreed upon or uncontested child support modifications.

What is a Default Judgment?

The only way for a divorce to be finalized within 61 days of filing WITHOUT an agreement or cooperation from the non-filing spouse, is by a “Default Judgment”. To answer the question, you should understand a little about a concept called the “jurisdiction” of the Court, a complicated subject, most of which is beyond the scope of this website.
But in order to provide information to the visitors of this website, we will explain it to the extent it pertains to: How a divorce or other family case can be concluded without the agreement or cooperation of the other party.

Before any court can take an act that effects people’s lives in a family case, it has to have “jurisdiction”. This is required by, among other things, the Due Process Clause of the U. S. Constitution. Our courts proceed on the principal that all involved must have “due process” - a concept of fairness and proper procedure.

An agreed or uncontested divorce is accomplished by both parties voluntarily submitting to the jurisdiction of the Court. The person filing does so by filing. The other party must sign and file papers that indicate to the Court this person does not object to the jurisdiction of the court on any legal or factual basis.

What if the non-filing party will not cooperate and voluntarily submit to the jurisdiction of the Court?

They must be in-voluntarily submitted to the jurisdiction of the Court. The Court must issue an official court document called, in Texas, a “CITATION”. This document must then be properly delivered or “served” on the non-filing party, usually in person delivery by a Sherriff or Constable. If the non-filing party does not respond within the time limits specified by the Court on the CITATION, the Court can then proceed and grant a Divorce Decree by “default”. This is considered the minimum “due process” required. This is how a divorce can end on the 61st day after filing even if one party will not cooperate.
Ignoring a CITATION is an act of negligence. Many people don’t realize this until its too late.

The issuance and service of a Citation are sometimes a necessary next step that must be taken. Even if a case is not entirely uncontested, sometimes it can still be resolved with minimal difficulty. We try to go the extra mile at The Childress Law Office, and if we are not able to accomplish the result you want on an agreed or uncontested basis, we remain available to assist you step by step.

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